I'm a woman in my 40s and need help for my brother. When we were teenagers, he began to masturbate in front of me. I never confronted him about it and had not thought of it for years when, on a family get-together, he began to talk about it. He apologised, but said that when he wants an erection he thinks of me. He said he's in love with me and wants us to have an intimate relationship. Where can he get the help he desperately needs? There's no doubt that your brother needs psychosexual therapy, but what about you?
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Retrospective data were entered anonymously by 1, adult women using a computer-assisted self-interview. Thirty-one participants were victims of sister-sister incest, 40 were victims of brother-sister incest, 19 were victims of father-daughter incest, 8 were victims of sexual abuse by an adult female including one mother , and were victims of sexual abuse by an adult male other than their father before reaching 18 years of age. The rest 1, served as controls. The victims of sister-sister incest had significantly more problematic outcomes than controls on many measures as adults. Victims of sister-sister incest were more depressed and more likely than controls to be distant from the perpetrator-sister and to have traded sex for money, experienced an unplanned pregnancy, engaged in four different types of masturbation, and engaged in 13 different same-sex behaviors. Our findings were consistent with other reports of early eroticization and persistent hypereroticization of incest victims. Abstract Retrospective data were entered anonymously by 1, adult women using a computer-assisted self-interview.
Props to your sister. Remember she will only try to convert you because she thinks it is in your best interest. I have a fairly business profession, but a lot of other stuff going on most weeknights. But daughter and I agreed that this teaching was unhealthy. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. In high demand" I would be out the door. I'm always torn between wanting to spend time together doing loads of fun things and giving him space to pursue his dream. But his absence in the spiritual side of my life, and that of my mother, was very hard. I know he loves me with all of his heart.