The important thing is doing it together. Maybe you do, too. Your not alone I married a women ob 20 years ago three kids 19,15,12 Also lost my job as a homebuilder my thoughts are with you. She sounds so indoctrinated that like even if you try to get her to open up, who knows you might get like a BJ out of it doesn't sound like it but who knowsyou have to realize that a lifetime of conditioning will be set in motion in her mind that will make your life hell. I'm engaged to a junior intern and we're supposed to get married soon. He is married to his job right now.
We had a long distant relationship for 3 years. Also, I'm having a really hard time understanding from these responses how anyone in the medical field ever dates or gets married. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other. When she had a strict 6: If there was a disagreement, one person was supposed to submit to the other, consult a rulebook that covered almost everything, or turn to a church leader to decide for them.
In the end, if the guy is the keeper you say he is then go with your gut. I had many, many friends who moved this quickly during courtship, too. When you mix cultural groups you increase the difficulty. Mind control is not child's play, and the Mormon church has real people's blood on their hands for the despicable damage they've caused.
Remember she will only try to convert you because she thinks it is in your best interest. She will not marry you until you convert to mormonism whole cloth. Like many Docotors wives, Our husbands have a demanding career.