When he does, he is often quiet and exhausted. I just wanted to let SN and AD know that, if you decide to choose this path, you are not alone. Her beliefs are innocous but ultimately a death sentence for this relationship. Will he be happy knowing that you are giving up something of incredible importance to you. The scriptures say that one of the main reasons good people don't join the church is because they just haven't been introduced to it. He could come home from trips and I was too worn out to fake the good cheer.
Sounds like classic "flirt to convert. I forgot to add, that if you marry and alow your children to be raised as Mormon, chances are you wont be able to be at their wedding because it will be in the temple. If yes, do you promise to not proselytize to me and let me drink a simple cup of coffee in my own home. T-1yr for me T-2yrs for him.